The Femdom Online Playbook is your map to the world of c2c lessons with Mistress. You’ll find all the techniques, fetishes and disciplines you can experience online, from basic practices to hardcore humiliating games. Each topic has its own article with more detailed instructions and tips, so you can dive right in where Mistress takes you.
⚠ Work in progress – this article is under construction.“
Main fetishes
Anal
One of the most common techniques that most online Mistresses expect their sub to do without discussion. Anal is a fundamental discipline in c2c lessons, it shows your openness, readiness and willingness to listen. You can find out how to properly prepare for it in a separate article [here].
Humiliation
Humiliation is one of the most prominent techniques you will encounter with an online Mistress. It can take many forms, from writing on your body, to forcing you to repeat embarrassing phrases, to situations where you become a source of amusement and ridicule. The Mistress expects you to not fight back and accept the humiliation as part of your role.
Anal Gape
Anal gape is one of the hardcore techniques that Mistresses often consider a sign of complete devotion. The slave must open his hole as wide as he can and can use a variety of techniques to do so.
DP – Double Penetration
DP, or double penetration, is one of the classic hardcore techniques that Mistresses like to test online as well. For women it is relatively “simple”, it involves filling the ass and pussy. For men the situation is more complicated, because the only option is anal penetration with two objects at once. And this is what makes DP an extremely demanding discipline, which is always a great challenge. It looks intense on camera and the Mistress reads a clear signal from it: the sub is ready to go to the limits of his possibilities (no limit slut). DP in a c2c lesson is not only a physical test, but also a psychological test, the moment when the sub shows that his body is fully open and usable according to the wishes of the Mistress.
In an online lesson, DP often becomes the highlight of the show, because it is clear proof that the sub no longer has any limits and is ready to give the Mistress absolutely everything.
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ATM – Ass to Mouth
Ass to Mouth is one of the techniques that Mistresses perceive as extremely humiliating and extremely visual. It is a situation where the sub must immediately take what was just in the anus into his mouth. The Mistress does not give the sub any room for negotiation, the body becomes a cycle where nothing is “dirty” or “forbidden”. It is a difficult discipline for the sub precisely because it touches the boundaries of taboo and resistance, and for the Mistress it is clear proof that her power is absolute.
ATM works great in an online environment because the camera captures every detail: the moment of pulling out, moving and subsequent reception into the mouth. The Mistress watches the reactions, grimaces, hesitations and whether the sub can complete the task without resistance. The whole act is actually a psychological game – ATM shows that the sub no longer has any boundaries and that he is ready to grant the Mistress full control over his body and mind.
Dirty ATM
ATM stands for Ass to Mouth, meaning the transfer from the anus to the mouth. Adding the word dirty makes it an even harsher and more humiliating version of the whole technique. The Mistress directly demands that the slave not clean his anus before the lesson and be dirty. Everything he does with the dildo or ass afterwards is dirty.
Edging
Edging is a game with the edge of orgasm – the sub must get as close to climax as possible and stop immediately at the command of the Mistress. The Mistress tests discipline and self-control. The camera captures the trembling, breathing and desperate expression when the sub has to interrupt in the best way. And if it is done prematurely? That is a clear failure. The Mistress can then end the lesson without reward, add a punishment or force him to continue despite his own exhaustion – in any case, the sub learns that control belongs exclusively to her.
Body writing
Derogatory body writing are a great way to humiliate a slave online. Body writing has several different games, all described in the articles here:
Deepthroat
Deepthroat is one of the classic disciplines that Mistresses like to test in online lessons. It is a demonstration of how deeply the sub can take without resistance – whether it is a dildo, a toy, or another object. The camera captures exactly what is important to the Mistress: held breath, tears in the eyes, gag reflexes and overall vulnerability.
The Mistress monitors two things during deepthroat: physical endurance and psychological surrender. The sub becomes a toy without a voice, with a full mouth, completely controlled from a distance. In the online environment, deepthroat is powerful precisely because of the detail – a close-up shot shows every reflex and the Mistress immediately knows whether the sub is coping or failing.
Tips for conducting online deepthroat:
- Time challenges – hold a certain number of seconds with the object deep in the mouth.
- Counting on command – the Mistress sets the rhythm and the sub counts out loud between each insertion.
- Failure control – if the sub cannot hold out, the Mistress can add an extra punishment or task.
Cuckold online lesson
Cuckolding in online classes often works in such a way that the Mistress forces the sub to watch pre-selected videos that are supposed to affect him psychologically. While the camera records his reactions, he watches scenarios where another man is satisfying the woman, or where the Mistress symbolically “belongs” to someone else. During this, the Mistress may force the sub to comment, praise the “opponent” or loudly admit his own inferiority.
Intox
In the BDSM scene, the term “intoxication” often refers to the feeling when a sub is in a role that they are “not quite in their right mind” – as if they have lost control of their own body and will.
In online classes, this is achieved with the help of alcohol or poppers.